Can someone please tell me, do we ever get a given name for Doctor Jiang? I'm using him as a side character in a completely unrelated-to-this fandom story (sorry!).
Coming into a comm with an argument--especially that approach--isn't a great way to introduce yourself, no, so thank you for the apology!
As a naturally kinda-abrasive person myself I have a bit of experience with that. I'd be happy to offer suggestions on how to better integrate yourself into a group of people without arguing yourself into a corner (or right out the door). If you're interested in learning better ways to make your point without alienating people, I could offer suggestions if you're interested.
Apology accepted! We all make mistakes. It just came off a lot strong, especially since we haven't seen you around before. I'm also very allergic to telling people a right or wrong way to do fannish things, so that kind of hit everybody's buttons.
But you know what, it's okay. Let's start over ad try again. Come and hang out and be encouraging and fun with us!
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Date: 2 May 2020 13:48 (UTC)I do want to say that I was trying to contribute in a positive way by posting the screenshot. I guess that didn't work.
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Date: 2 May 2020 14:11 (UTC)As a naturally kinda-abrasive person myself I have a bit of experience with that. I'd be happy to offer suggestions on how to better integrate yourself into a group of people without arguing yourself into a corner (or right out the door). If you're interested in learning better ways to make your point without alienating people, I could offer suggestions if you're interested.
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Date: 2 May 2020 16:02 (UTC)But you know what, it's okay. Let's start over ad try again. Come and hang out and be encouraging and fun with us!