Coming into a comm with an argument--especially that approach--isn't a great way to introduce yourself, no, so thank you for the apology!

As a naturally kinda-abrasive person myself I have a bit of experience with that. I'd be happy to offer suggestions on how to better integrate yourself into a group of people without arguing yourself into a corner (or right out the door). If you're interested in learning better ways to make your point without alienating people, I could offer suggestions if you're interested.